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Posted 2006-11-20 10:57 PM (#7360)
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I need to talk to somebody I'm comfortable with, but I don't know who to go to. I'm not comfortable with my parent or any uncle or aunt. I don't know which friend to go to. I have four I'm comfortable enough with to really let some of this shit go, but two have never been in certain situations before that I'm having problems with. One has a real problem with listening and the other I'm not sure about. Goddamnit, I really can't hold it in any longer. It's been 5 years I've been letting things build up inside of me. It's getting really hard to keep myself from snapping, and if I don't get these things of my chest I will snap on somebody sooner or later. It scares me because I don't know who, when, where, or why it will happen, but it will. I don't know how anybody here can help me but I just want to know who you would go to and how you'd ask them to listen.

I can't stand this anymore, I miss feeling like my old self.

Edited by -K9- 2006-11-20 10:58 PM
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Posted 2006-11-20 11:14 PM (#7362 - in reply to #7360)
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what id say is go to the friend you think would listen and try and help the most, even if they havnt been in that certain situation they will still be able to help and they will listen good. i would just start talking to them and start talking about the certain subject. thats about all i can say if you want to talk to a rnadom person feel free to IM me
-K9-
Posted 2006-11-21 1:34 PM (#7375 - in reply to #7360)
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^ thanks, but I'd really perfer somebody I know that I can talk to in person.
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Posted 2006-11-22 12:19 AM (#7383 - in reply to #7375)
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-K9- - 2006-11-21 1:34 PM

^ thanks, but I'd really perfer somebody I know that I can talk to in person.


My dear K-9!

You seem like a bright, VERY articulate, caring young man! You have to know that sometimes it is better to talk to someone "outside" your circle of friends. I mean, they do mean well, but certainly they are going to take your side of things and perhaps not give you the best advice you truly need. Do you know what I am saying? Plus, you are young yet and so are your friends. Why don't you give an adult outside your circle a try? Big brother, big sister? Do you have anything organizations around your area like that? This is my suggestion certainly because I don't know what is troubling you. I do know that you should get it out in the open and try to find some solutions by talking with someone who has experienced life a bit more since you are so young yet and also your friends are in the same age bracket. I am sure what is festering inside you seems like a huge mountain to climb and is very real! However...there is always a way out, some realistic solutions to resolve it. I PROMISE you, it does get better once you have some coping skills under your belt, but that comes with time/age and experience.

Anytime you feel like venting, you are ALWAYS welcome here. We are SMF family! You can always PM any of us you feel safe or comfortable with here even though you don't personally know us. We are REAL I can guarantee you that. There are REAL good people who come here that I consider my family, true caring peeps.

Your SMF friend,
Cyn
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-K9-
Posted 2006-11-22 4:18 PM (#7394 - in reply to #7360)
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Maybe you are right. Maybe I should go to somebody outside of my circle. But I don't have a brother or a sister. I'm not comfortable enough with my parents to tell them all that is bothering me.
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