lol..Hiya Jeff! I love your humour! You have to have a balance. Never give up what you love for anyone! Not anyone. If they can not understand, then it is not meant to be. Of course your wife needs to go and have herself a great time too in whatever she enjoys, you have to have a life outside the marriage as well, I think it makes it healthier. For myself, it was a hard lesson to learn after 22 years!